{"id":380,"date":"2006-01-26T23:14:55","date_gmt":"2006-01-26T22:14:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kickinorman.com\/blog\/?p=380"},"modified":"2006-01-26T23:14:55","modified_gmt":"2006-01-26T22:14:55","slug":"forhallande","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kickinorman.com\/blog\/forhallande\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00f6rh\u00e5llande?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Idag pratade jag med en v\u00e4ninna med ett m\u00e5ng\u00e5rigt f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande i bakfickan.
\nHennes partner tillbringar n\u00e4stan lika mycket tid borta fr\u00e5n hemmet som min. S\u00e5 vi kom, inte helt ov\u00e4ntat, att prata om n\u00e4rhet, intimitet, sex.
\nHon sa:
\n”Det blir ju inte s\u00e5 mycket av myset (dvs sex, reds. anm.<\/em>), men n\u00e4r vi ses f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker vi vara n\u00e4ra.”
\n”?” sa jag, intelligent nog.
\n”Ja”, sa hon och t\u00e4nkte lite. ”Ig\u00e5r ringde han mig p\u00e5 jobbet och fr\u00e5gade om han \u2013 efter tv\u00e5 veckor av aktiviteter p\u00e5 olika h\u00e5ll i landet\u2013 kunde f\u00e5 en dejt med sin flickv\u00e4n.”
\n”\u00c5\u00e5\u00e5\u00e5\u00e5h”, susade jag. ”Fantastiskt!”
\n”Jag vet. Han \u00e4r s\u00e5 rar.”
\n”Vad gjorde ni d\u00e5?”
\n”Ja\u2026 ”
\nSa hon och t\u00e4nkte lite:
\n”Han kom ju hem r\u00e4tt sent. Men sen n\u00e4r vi s\u00e5gs s\u00e5\u2026”
\n”S\u00e5 vad\u00e5?” dreglade jag, beredd att frossa i andras n\u00e4rhet och lycka.
\n”Ja, vi s\u00e5g ju p\u00e5 tv. Vilket kanske inte \u00e4r s\u00e5 romantiskt. Men jag hade huvudet p\u00e5 hans axel. S\u00e5 vi var r\u00e4tt n\u00e4ra \u00e4nd\u00e5.”<\/p>\n

Det \u00e4r v\u00e4l d\u00e4r n\u00e5nstans man g\u00e5r fr\u00e5n f\u00f6r\u00e4lskelse\/romans till f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande: N\u00e4r intimitet \u00e4r att f\u00e5 vara fysiskt n\u00e4ra n\u00e4r man tittar p\u00e5 sitt favoritprogram p\u00e5 tv.<\/p>\n

Karri\u00e4risternas f\u00f6rbannelse?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Idag pratade jag med en v\u00e4ninna med ett m\u00e5ng\u00e5rigt f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande i bakfickan. Hennes partner tillbringar n\u00e4stan lika mycket tid borta fr\u00e5n hemmet som min. S\u00e5 vi kom, inte helt ov\u00e4ntat, att prata om n\u00e4rhet, intimitet, sex. Hon sa: ”Det blir ju inte s\u00e5 mycket av myset (dvs sex, reds. anm.), men n\u00e4r vi ses f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker… <\/p>\n

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